Think your Lady Friend is in love with you?

Salam... Yo, confused dudes out there! Do you think your good friend which is a lady has something more than a friendship to offer? think maybe she has some feelings for ya but u're just not sure? Think there are hints given but arent sure whether they are actually hints or just friendly gestures?

well u come to the right post, gents! *sorta...*

okay, to make things easier..im gonna give you guys the tips by stages, aite?

Stage 1 (Always present and available!):

> She will be present in most of your special events, you name it, talent shows, birthdays, camps, etc
-she wants you to know that she really wants to be part of your life by being there for any big events of
yours..She wants you to feel SPECIAL. Yeap.

> She's never too busy to meet you.
- Seriously, women have a lotttttttttttttttt of things going on in their minds. And if she's willing to clear a schedule for you, Ting ting ting ting! You do the math.

> She's never too tired to entertain you.
- Women value their sleep a lot.. like how men value their gaming time. If you know she's been working her bums off the whole day and you know that she's all worn out and ready to hit the sack early but still she'll say YES when you asked her out for just a coffee.. then, yeah. again.. do the algebra.

P/S: but please dont do this too often, u dont want ur Lady friend to turn into a human sized panda due to lack of sleep.

> A friend in need.
- Well, she's always the first one to offer you a helping hand if u ever need any help. We do this to good friends too tho but for the guy dat we fell for? Almost every-single-time.

Stage 2 (Texting)

> Random texting
- cuz she misses you. simple.

> Stupid questions
- just to start a conversation. P/s: If you have feelings for her, keep the conversation going, if you sent her like "Okay..." "Cool"..n other type of short msgs, trust me.. in the end, she'll stop trying. Women love it when men shows some kind of interest on keeping the texting going..no matter how ridiculous the topics will become. if you are the shy type, just try to make up some words, dont worry if you'll sound funny or stupid, whatever you do or say will never be wrong in her eyes. HAHA yeap. When you do that, it shows that you did some serious effort to impress her.

> Reminds you on any news or other important things 
- To be honest, when a lady fell for a guy friend, she tends to turn herself into your very own personal assistant. Why? She wants you to know that she really cares bout you. Duhh..? and yeah if you have exams or whatever, she'll text you "GoodLuck" the night before eventhough you told her about the exams/tournament like a month ago, she had definitely "StickyNote"-d it on her mind.

Stage 3 (Body Language)

> She'll look directly onto your face when you're talking but when you yourself are looking at her while talking, she'll stay for a while then look away... y? She's just enjoying the view. The view of you. AHAHA In her mind : "Dayuuummm he's so cute when he talks."

> She'll always walk beside you.. automatically.. She did not do that on purpose.. it just happen! It's like you have magnet on your body that makes her body wants to always be near you.., unconsciously.

> She'll always try to look her best.
-  Your lady friend might have been the least lady-like lady before but suddenly, she's becoming more and more lady-ish whenever you guys are going for hangouts. Not so sudden la but she might have been changing her wardrobe bit by bit.

> She'll defends you when your other friends tease or bully you
- she doesnt like to see you upset or feeling down by the criticisms made by your other friends. She wants you to know that you are amazing just by being you.

> she cares A LOT for your well-being.
- if you've lost weight, she'll b the first one to notice and she will stuff you with lotsa food. and it's not like that she hates seeing you all skin and bones, it's just she doesnt want you to be UNHEALTHY. She wants you to be healthy and well for yourself, not for her.

> Innocent touches.
- mostly done on purpose. I dont know why but some girls did that.. I dont, tho.. Haraam... hahha but i may have did some REAL innocent touches. didnt do it on purpose. *Puppy eyes*

> Her body faces towards you.
   - When she talks, stands or sits.. Always facing towards you. And when she's sitting, take note on which side she's leaning to, if she leans more to your side then voila! Another way how natures r trying to tell you she's in love with ya

> HOLD MA THINGS!
- among all other friends, she hands you her things when she's going to the loo or just trying on some shoes. another y? Well, i dont know why..we just did that cuz we like you? :/

Stage 4 (The TEST)

After we've given you all of these hints.it's time for the test! We just wnna know where we stand in ur life? Do we mean something more than just a friend or vice versa.

> Ignores you suddenly
- She wants you to miss her. She wants you to go out and look for her.

> Stops texting for days
- she wants you to text her first.

> usually she'll wait for a week, after a week and still no messages or any news from you, she'll take it as a NO from you.. she'll know where she stands n slowly backing off from trying to win your heart.


Im no psychologist but i can say that most of these tips r true cuz well...im a woman.. And i did all of these things.

Goodluck!

Note:

> I know some of the guys are wayyyyy too slow to understand the hints from the girls, so my advise is, try asking one of her friends that you can trust. Trust me, you'll get some precious info.

> If a woman that used to text you almost everyday suddenly stops and went MIA for days, it's her SOS for you to pick up the phone and call her! If she's the one that keeps trying to start the conversation with you, she'll think that she's an annoyance and doesnt want to bother you no more.

> Ask your friend to tease her when you are not around, ask your friend to purposely tease her by asking, "Do you like *&^%?", and if she blushes and make awkward faces and trying very hard to not make eye contact with your friend then yeap, she DOES like you. But if she widened her eyes in horror as if she had forgotten to wear deodorant before going out in public and maintained eye contact with your friend then fella, i have a baddddddd news for you.

P/s: Even when a girl does like a boy, she'll deny it anyway. the differences are her reactions towards the statement. TAKE NOTE!

> For Muslim Girls, like me, we dont really do the innocent touches tho. But yeah, we're just normal human beings, sometimes we forgot our limits n 'accidentally' did the innocent touches. Astaghfirullah. Try not to do that k, sisters ;)

> Observe the behavior of her girl friends. BIGGGG HINTS HERE.

> just for early warnings, if all of these hints had been shown by ur lady friend and you urself have feelings for her too, dont play the game for too long or if you're thinking of having a second guess whether she really DOES like you then DONT. Y? :

• She'll think that you are not interested in her and she will i repeat, she will GIVE UP. Because she's afraid that she might have annoyed you. 
• lastly, i mean C'MON! She's given you THESE HINTS ALREADY! What more do you need? A billboard saying, "IM IN LOVE WITH YOU!" ? 

and when a woman has given up her effort in trying to win your heart, sooner or later, you will be forgotten and for most women, there is no rebound love in our dictionary. There is MAYBE but only bcause she had never given up on you. But if she did, then ,forever will she be your FRIEND. It will hurt her A LOT tho when she's trying to forget you and lotsa tears will be shed but once she's done crying, then it's GAME OVER.

If you are my child, i think you'll die.

Salam....

OOOOhhh my dear good innocent neglected child (my blog), i think if u were a human child, u'll die cuz i've neglected you for God-knows for how longggg! im sorry! i was busy with normal human being stuffs n living my life as a lame woman as i am before n forever will be. *pelok laptop betangisan*

When was d last time i wrote a post? was it like a year ago..Dayyyuummmm dat's wayyyy too long..

dont get me wrong tho i did try to update ma blog before but other things stumble upon me n i have to run errands. kyahhhh~ ok i was lazy.. a lazy bum i am. with big peach-like bum. Now dat's delicious. i want some peaches.

Okayyy stop thinking about food ..  choomie u're getting "wider" for God-friggin- Sake!

Oh speaking of wider.. dat's a lie..ccuz most of ma friends told me i look a lil 'smaller'..

Dt's wht they said tho but i think i look just the same... perhaps maybe lost a few pounds but still weighed a sack of fleshy potatoes.

okay maybe i did lost some weight cuz i think some of my jeans r quite big for me now n my t shirts dat used to be my 'hangout shirts' r now my pajamas cuz they're a lil big. hey, i did lost some! yeay!

So what i did? Exercise? cut down on the carbs n fats? pilates? liposuction? sliced the fats on ma belly with knives?

oh hell naw! i did none of it! my secret?? well...

i lived in a rented house! Yeay!

means i've to cut down ma food money to save money for gas! yeay!

Almost everyday i lived on simple-fried bee hoon or kuey tiaw. *whatever the spellings r*

dont get me wrong tho... they're delicious just that i've another stomach to fill now. Ma lil Imaginaerum, the car.

N plus, when you're busy with ur FYP and when u're home u got all tired and wornout, ya'll just wanna take a short splish-splash of shower n then head to bed... u dont have time for food. Imagine living like that for 1 whole sem? except for the shower part... it's not just splish splash moment..i took a lil more than just a splish splash. okay maybe a lot more. i like smelling good n fresh before i went to bed. makes me feel like one of the movie stars in Hollywood. all fragranced n fresh on the bed with ma bantal buruk n plushy mister Cadbury before i enter the snoozeville.

oh wait..stop drifting..

So yeah.. the reason y i dropped some weight (maybe), cuz i need to save some money for gas and yeah cuz i have so lil time do some homecooked meals. sometimes i just eat what i managed to grab before i head to class.


no pilates or slicing stuffs or whatever. Living in a rented house can help u lost weight. Choomie-Approved.

Mr. Cadbury n my bantal buruk yg harum lagi menggoda

Love Day

Salam Et Bonsoir Mes Amies!

Just a quick post here! 

HURRAY!

Okay, bout V Day, yes, I Am A Muslim, and i DONT celebrate it ..

so what's the fuss about it?

So, i've been "witnessing" lotsa dramas in facebook for the past 2,3 years.. and i must say, EVENTHOUGH we dont celebrate Vday, doesnt mean we can talk trash about it, right? 

I mean, it's not fair for those who celebrate it.. besides, if we talk trash about it just because it is Haraam for us to celebrate Vday, it's like we're insulting other religion's culture..

As we all know, they are millionnnns of people livin' on this very earth and they are of different kinds of religion, and with this kind of environment, we must learn how to Respect other people's culture. 

it is enough for us to just kindly explain to our fellow non- muslim friends why we cant celebrate Vday, and spread the news to our fellow muslim Bros and sis during an usrah or Khutbah and maybe a short sharing moments. Harsh words or provocative posters or posts are not important, in fact, should have never been done.. By doing so, it will not just make you look bad, but also our beloved religion, Allah's religion... so, why risk it? 

why dont we put ourselves in their shoes, what if one day, they talk trash about our culture, our religious beliefs, wouldnt be fair for us? No, nobody wants their religion to be insulted.. Nobody.. So, same goes to us, eventhough we dont accept the celebration of Vday, doesnt mean we have the rights to provoke everyone on how bad Vday is, IT IS for us(bear this in mind), but for them, it is a very special day!

so people, we must learn how to respect other people's religion; their culture, their beliefs.. if you dont respect their religion, then, why do you expect them to respect ours? 

I am not supporting Vday here, it's alllll about Respect.. and keeping a good relationship with your fellow friends that are not Muslim.. it's not just about Vday, other celebrations too..

If somebody ask you to join them to celebrate vday, just tell em that you dont celebrate Vday, with a smile! and if they ask why, it wont hurt you if you would explain to them KINDLY. that way you will earn your respect and people would never missunderstood our religion for being too extreme and full of hatred..<-- im telling you the truth.. i saw LOTS OF STUFFS regarding this matter.

Seriously, stop... I love my religion and i can't live my life peacefully with the thoughts that other people are 'hating' us secretly.. I have non muslim bestfriend, and we respect each other's religion and we couldnt be happier!

Respect, people.. it is one of the important essences in life.. 

Salam et Bonsoir!

These 2 are my bestfriends.
the one on the left is the one that i talked about just now..
she's not a Muslim but she respect our religion and so did we..  and our relationship stays strong..till  now! :)

Nickname?

Assalamualaikum et BONSOIR!

nickname? what's with that title,eh?

Hmm, just to make things short and simple and less annoying, i prefer people to call me by my nickname which is CHoomie (pronounce as, Choo - Mee , NOT CHOMIE or COMBIE,)

why? dont i like my real name?? 

well, I DO LIKE my real name, in fact i LOVEEEEE my real name, it's very unique and eccentric! :D if i could marry my name, I WOULD.. but then, it is ONLY acceptable when teachers, or other crowds that are on the same level as teachers, to call me by my real name..

but friends? just call me Choomie aite, even acquaintances! :)

bcuz, when u guys called me by my real name, as if ya'll are creating this biggggg wall between us and it's kinda hard for me to getting myself closer to u guys.. and it's hurting me inside and out, i feel like the world is being unfair to me, eh wait, what am i blabbering about.. back to the name 'thing', but if ya'll are using CHOOMIE to call me, dude...i'll treat ya'll like i've known ya'll for ages! i dont know, it's not that im being picky or what but that is just how my whole body system works..i dont know.. it's like it's on autopilot or something, when it comes to name..teehee..  i'd like to apologise though if this kind behaviour ticks u guys off, but that's just who i am, i wanna get closer to ya'll and be great friends, but if ya'll just wanna stay as my acquaintances and maybe just school/course mate then, ok... im cool with that.no harms intended.. :D .. but yeah, aint no cakes or cookies will be coming to ur house then. so, make ur choice..  hehehe

but dudes, please..i love making friends! even with strangers... ahaks..! 

so guys please, just call me Choomie.. :) 

yo, my name is Choomie...just Choomie k... and nice to meet ya..hhe

oh heyy~

Assalamualaikum et Bonsoir mes amies!

sorry for the late updates aite.. 

it's cuz of ze finals which ended, i dont know, 8 days ago.. teehee..

sorry! i was so busy packing me stuffs, this and that for the past 8 days and now im fully free to update craps! :D

and so my holidays are here..AND GUESS WHAT???

i've no plans and exciting things going on.. =.= 

just letting meself go with my parents karaoke box.. 

did went out with friends,though... but that's it.. and dont get me wrong k, i did had fun with them but then, once im home, i've no idea what am i gonna do! so i end up, facing MR. boyfirend(laptop) and knock meself out till dawn.. yeah..

but still, im glad im home though, hanging out with me favourite girldfriend and my handsome hero, (mom n dad) ... :)

but all and all, i miss me friends, though... and if my two bestgirlfriends are here, Dale and Nisa, we'll hang out till night for sure.. haishh.. but ya'll arent here... boohoo..miss ya, angels!!

ok, i've nothing else to say, before i start blabbering bout unnecessary things and things that arent suppose to be shared on9, i should stop ..like..NOW..

aite, will update bout other 'exciting' things later! 

BYE!

Assalamualaikum et Au revoir!

oh BY THE WAY!

if ya'll realised something, i've deleted the post "Blinded by my own feelings"..

why? i've decided to forget that 'memory' cuz what's the point aite?

besides, it's 2013 bebeh!!!

p/s: HAPPY NEW YEAR, THOUGH!

It's time to create new awesome memories and i dont find it necessary for me to put em inside this glorious blog! :D 

am just gonna say that, i've gone through a MAJOR heartbreak of a century!

and im over it already, thanks to me beloved housemates and bestfriends! They are the best!

these are the faces that had helped me  to get through 'that matter".. i love these people so much!  every bits of their DNA, RNA and mRNA! i love em! hehehe

Finals!

Salam et Bonsoir Mes amies!

Yea, i've been missing for days! busy with final exams and...stuff... well ACTUALLY, preparation for exam, 20%, having tons of fun (which is unnecessary), well, you do the math...

and yeah, serve me right for being 'well-prepared'..! guess what, i've been scribblin' craps on my exam papers! :D yeay me! and i even came out with me own theories, i deserve a noble prize, people.. 

The place where the exam was held was kinda 'conducive' for the student to cheat, i mean like, the people sitting behind you can CLEARLY see the people sittin' infront answers! cool aite!!! and i felt truly sorry for (if) the people that maybe "peeked" at me answers cuz man, even I dont know what i did.. 

i just scribbled things that me myself had never heard of! like i said, i made me own theories.. and for the MCQs.. let's say... I painted a 'picture' instead of confidently blackened the answers.. *p/s: some of em, i did blackened em with 100% confidence that i got em rght, maybe 2 of them.. 2/60.. yes*

well, people..DO NOT follow my lead k, study for the exams (finals,especially) in the last minutes is NEVER good, and will never be the best solution for anyone.. in my case, i realised the consequences, but still, wanna do it..ALLLLLL over again.. i need to change,. New year's resolution! :D

but in the mean time, am gonna stay the same..bahahahah! i'll change! I promise! After i turn 21! ;)

"im gonna change for the best! do trust this face..:D"

and about the 'turning 21'... SAVE THE DATE,PEOPLE! 

me birthday is around the corner.. soooooooooo ;P 

heheheh, im in my 20's but im still into presents,ok.. so, dont judge meh! hoho.. so brush ur essay skills and prepare me 2 pages long wishes, and as for presents, make sure it's worth atleast rm20++ hoho..

nahhhh, am just kidding, as long as u guys remember me birthday, it'll be more than enough..:D

that's it from moi! remember, never ever study for your FINALS in the last minute! midsems, hmmm, still thinkin' bout em..hoho.. and yeah, dont cheat in the exam! unless the answers are wayyy toooo clear and the people sittin' in front of ya seems to 'obviously' share them answers with you, then that's acceptable..bahaha..nahhh, still cheatin'.. No cheatin' ,people! 

alright, wanna go save the world.. by that i mean, wastin' ma time on the internet..yeah.

my life's great..

Au revoir!

Salam...~